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Should You Leave Everything to Your Spouse First? What New York Families Should Consider 

September 8, 2022
David Parker, Esq.
David Parker, White Plains and New City NY Estate Planning Attorney
David Parker, Esq.
David Parker is an attorney who specializes in Estate Planning and Elder Law and has been practicing law for 30 years. Be it Wills, Trusts, Powers of Attorney, Health Care Proxies, or Medicaid Planning, David provides comprehensive and caring counsel for seniors and their families. A large portion of David’s practice is asset protection strategies so that families do not lose their hard earned savings to nursing home care costs. He also handles probate administration for the settlement of estates.
Naomi Judd left her daughters, performers Ashley Judd and Wynonna Judd, out of her will according to multiple reports.

When news broke about Naomi Judd’s estate plan, many people were surprised to learn that her will did not specifically include her daughters.

This raised an important question that comes up often in estate planning: can you choose to leave children out of your will?

While every situation is different, this example highlights how estate plans are often more nuanced than they first appear.

What Happened

According to public reports, Naomi Judd named her husband as the executor of her estate and structured her estate plan so that it did not directly leave assets to her daughters in her will.

At first glance, this may seem unusual. However, estate plans are not always as simple as what appears in a will alone.

Assets can pass in different ways, including through trusts, beneficiary designations, or directly to a surviving spouse. As a result, a will may not reflect the full picture of how an estate is ultimately distributed.

Can You Leave Children Out of a Will?

In general, individuals can decide how their assets are distributed, including whether to leave assets to their children.

However, there are important considerations.

In New York, a surviving spouse has legal rights to a portion of the estate that cannot easily be overridden. Children, on the other hand, do not automatically have the same protections under the law.

That said, leaving children out of a will can sometimes lead to confusion or legal challenges, especially if expectations are not clearly addressed in advance. This is one reason it is important to review these decisions carefully with an estate planning attorney.

Why Some Estate Plans Focus on the Spouse First

In many long-term marriages, it is common for one spouse to leave assets primarily to the surviving spouse.

There are several reasons for this approach:

  • Providing financial security for the surviving spouse
  • Simplifying the administration of the estate
  • Allowing for flexibility in how assets are distributed later

There can also be tax considerations involved, depending on the size and structure of the estate. In New York, coordinating these decisions properly can make a meaningful difference in how an estate is handled over time.

In these cases, children may still receive assets later, even if they are not directly named in the will.

The Role of Trusts and Privacy

Another factor to consider is that wills become part of the public record once they go through probate.

Trusts, on the other hand, can allow assets to pass privately and outside of the probate process.

This means that even when a will does not mention certain beneficiaries, they may still be included in other parts of the estate plan. Many New York families choose to use trusts as part of a broader plan to maintain privacy and provide more control over how assets are distributed.

What This Means for Your Estate Plan in New York

Situations like this highlight the importance of viewing your estate plan as a whole, not just as a single document.

Whether you plan to leave assets to your children, your spouse, or a combination of both, your wishes should be clearly documented and aligned across your will, trusts, and beneficiary designations.

For individuals and families in White Plains, New City, and throughout New York, these decisions are best made with guidance to ensure everything is structured properly and reflects your intentions.

Creating a Plan That Reflects Your Wishes

Estate planning involves more than deciding who receives what. It requires putting the right documents in place and making sure they work together.

If you are considering changes to your estate plan or have questions about how these decisions apply under New York law, it may be helpful to speak with an estate planning attorney and review your options. Book a call today to learn more. 

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